We had our secret codes for when he wanted to meet me or to sneak away from the group. I liked him and sometimes when we were having sex I thought about him as my boyfriend.Īfter a while we had a connection for sure. We had a one sided relationship for probably at least 3 years. To this day I bet he swears he is 100% straight. 'Imagine if he would, even just in jest, put his arm around your waist and refer to you as his 'boyfriend' in front of the others in your group. I love remembering the fun I had as a teenager and thinking about guys I knew. This thread really got some legs! That's fun. In a situation like that, I think it would have been fun to sit on his lap in front of the others, and openly kiss him whenever he asked me to 'give him some sugar.' I like the thought of being able to be open about it like that - but only in that kind of situation, where it would have been accepted.” When I entered my teens, I wouldn't have minded being in such a situation with an older guy, provided that I was the youngest, and none of the others were in my peer-group. Imagine if he would, even just in jest, put his arm around your waist and refer to you as his 'boyfriend' in front of the others in your group. I'm glad he wasn't always like that with you. I wouldn't have wanted to be a jerk to you, though, at all. “If I would have been him, I would have wanted to kiss you afterward.